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教育科研

JUNZINENGLAO HOUSHIYOUJI

来源 :中国教育报 访问次数 : 发布时间 :2020-04-01

在去年教师节举行的全国教育大会上,习近平总书记把家庭教育提升到前所未有的国家发展战略高度。这次大会还提出“在学生中弘扬劳动精神”,劳动的意义被放在重要的位置,孩子的成长中,德智体美劳将缺一不可。

这让我想到了宋代名臣司马光在《家范》中明确提出的“君子能劳,后世有继”。司马光治国、治学、治家都堪称有成,官至宰相,主持编撰了史学巨著《资治通鉴》,治家方略则体现在《家范》《谏水家仪》《训俭示康》等家庭教育专著中,对后世的家庭教育思想产生了巨大影响。

司马光把“能劳”提到事关家族存亡的高度,是生存的根本,家族兴旺的根本。人只有依靠自己的劳动,依靠艰苦持业,才能生存发展,家族也才能立足、延续,子孙才能兴旺发达。家族如此,个人亦如此。

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《中国教育报》2019年03月14日第9版 版名: 家教周刊

文章关键字: 孩子 司马光 国家 家范 精神

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